Odd Guy, Out!

I had a horrible-fun night. It did start out nice at first, invited friends over for dinner and then I lost it. I did, and it was horrifying envisioning myself and remembering the things I said. And truth be told, I am not proud of what I said. But I also have no regrets, I had to do it. I had to get the message thru.

It started out as a week end picnic plan, but turned out my friends already had there stuff for that day. So we all decided to have it Thursday night. I made a pasta dish; my friends brought some dishes and a couple bottles of wine. People came on time and we were enjoying dinner, when a friend made a comment about my clothes. Saying that it’s inappropriate and “so unfashionista”, but I ignored him. But what can I say, I am in my own home. Is there really a need to dress up, right? And then, he made another comment about my place, saying that my decor was “all over the place.” Again, I kept my mouth shut. Although, my friends were starting to give me a look. The kind where they’re silently begging me not to say anything. Again, I ignored it. And then, they all decided to have a smoke in the garage. When my friend saw my old Honda Civic, and said – Oh my gosh, you’re still driving this car? Who drives this car nowadays? This is like the 90’s!

I exhaled and eventually, exploded – FYI, that car isn’t the 90’s. That is a 2000 Civic! And how dare you embarrass me in my own home. You are one self absorbed demeaning freak! I suggest you get your jacket from the closet and leave my undesigner house. And stay the f*ck away from my unfashionista life, will you? And would you please get out of here right away, before I loss my cool and ran you over with my car. Get out, now!

Long story short, my ex-friend left. And soon as my front door closed, the four of us remaining started laughing. Seems like everyone’s uncomfortable around him. And what’s great, is that the night ended well. Not to mention fun, after all the unpleasantries that happened.




  1. munchkinmommy · April 17, 2009

    ha! buti nga sa kaniya! 😛

    • sardonicnell · April 18, 2009

      @ SIS WENG: thank you, i should have made him walk out the door nong unang comment palang nya. but i was being a graceful host and friend. bottom line eh bura na sya sa aking friends list. hehehe 😉

  2. barrycade · April 24, 2009

    it’s funny how you describe the person as ex-friend. haha. he’s not reading your blog, is he? 😀

    • sardonicnell · April 26, 2009

      @ BARRY: i don’t think he reads my blog. but if ever he does, he will remain an ex-pal. hahaha! i just don’t beleive we can be friends be again. cause friends don’t do that to friends, dba?

  3. ewok1993 · April 24, 2009

    Coke pa lang nainum no noon ah; he should have waited until you get some alcohol in your system, just kidding.

    Some people are simply inconsiderate. I miss coming here.

    • sardonicnell · April 26, 2009

      @ EWOK: thanks, buti nalang at di pa ako lasing non. kong nagkataon eh kuchilyo ang nasa lalamunan nya. hahaha, just kidding!

  4. iris · April 25, 2009

    bilib talaga ako sayo nell 🙂 if that happened to me, i wouldn’t have the guts to say those. but good going 🙂

    • sardonicnell · April 26, 2009

      @ IRIS: i did try not to say anything, but i could only take so much. besides, i think he deserves getting kicked out. it was a party among friends, not detractors! hehehe.

  5. K · April 26, 2009

    Sorry to hear that.

    I always consider that patience is the most overrated virtue. There are people with bad attiutde pero kapag di ka na makagpigil, kailangan diretsahin para matauhan yung tao.

    In case he’d call to say ‘sorry’, would you forgive him?

    Hi, Nell.

    • sardonicnell · April 26, 2009

      @ K: may punto ka dyan, medyo over rated nga! forgiveness? i think i can. although, i wouldn’t want anything to do with him. taray ba? hahaha!

  6. Liv · May 29, 2009

    Some people can only make themselves better by making others feel bad.

    Glad you spoke out. That should teach him not to treat anyone that way.

    • sardonicnell · June 6, 2009

      thanks liv. i mean i tried to keep my mouth shut. but there are just things na di dapat pinapalagpas. dba 😉

  7. bw · June 3, 2009

    Might he been drunk or something ? But methinks you did the right thing. You gave him 2 chances but the 3rd one was the KO bell 🙂 I don’t think I’d have the patience to wait for the 4th man 😦

    • sardonicnell · June 6, 2009

      hello bw! oh no, he wasn’t drunk, he’s simply insensitive. hehehe!

  8. Leap of Faith! · June 15, 2009

    Hi Nell! That person was very rude – saying all those stuff. Buti na lang at hindi ka pumayag. It would have been nice if you ran over him too…hehehe!

    • sardonicnell · June 16, 2009

      oo nga noh, keith. i should have ran him over when i had the chance, hehehe! but then again ayaw kong dungisan ang bago kong manicure na kamay, hahaha! in fairness to that jerk, i haven’t heard back from him. i guess, he gets that the idea that i don’t want him around me or in any of my friendly gatherings. hahaha!

      ps: how are you na, my friend? how’s sis pinky and the kids. hope all’s well! (hugs)

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