Stuck Up

I’ve been called so many names, both good and bad. But this is the first time I’ve been addressed as a stuck up. And don’t you guys worry, I ain’t gonna cry about it. I’m actually laughing it all out. Simply because I know who I really am, and that I am not easily threatened by people calling me names. Besides, I’ve heard worst. Hahaha!

It started with a request or should I say an emotional blackmail. I was asked to child sit, yet again next week end. But then, I’ve already made plans for the coming Saturday. It’s our last week end before we fly to Manila for our holiday vacation. And I think I have every right to do my last minute errands. So, I was quick to tell them no. Told them of my plans for that day and said that Sunday would be better for me. I was so willing to compromise, even for a later time. But what  I got in return were unpleasant remarks, that I’m selfish and disagreeable.

Well quite obviously, I answered back and defended myself from such accusations. Most people would know, that I’m not one to withdraw in any fight. So if it’s verbal brawling they want, then that’s what they’ll get. It was a good five minutes of argument, until the word stuck up was said. And I blurt out a sarcastic laugh. I feel like yelling, WTF!

I hate to say this, but looks like I’m arguing with a dumb dumb. What does the word stuck up had to do with any of these? I would understand if they’d say that I am self centered, lazy or materialistic. But to call me a stuck up? He must have been high on meth, for him to say something stupid like that. Last I checked in the urban dictionary, the word stuck up pertains to a person who thinks they’re better than everyone else, except within their clique of friends.

And, do I think of myself any better than others? Well, the answer is hell no! How could I even think that, when I’m down right poor and unemployed. And besides, I don’t have a clique of friends who I share my stuck up moments with. I think I deserve better, and I don’t have time on my plate to mingle with airheads. And less I forget, our conversation started as a request, asking me a favor to watch over his kids. Now, it’s all starting to sound like an order or some sort of decree. Like it’s imperative that I follow. Well, screw him! Guess he forgot that I don’t take orders well.

The conversation ended when he decided to hang up and heard me call him a dick fart looney bastard. Serves him well, right? When I should have said more. And that money he was ranting about (or blackmailing me with), that he called a gift. Well, he can shoove it up his obnoxious a-hole, cause I have no use for it. I don’t want it, period.

Funny how people mistreat others just because they can’t have it there way. You do them a favor once, and suddenly your the official child sitter. People can be so darn abusive sometimes. You give them a hand, and yet they grab you by the arm. Now, who did they call selfish an disagreeable again? Hmmm, I simply rest my case…

Take That!



  1. Pinky · November 24, 2008

    A good example of “sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me” – hahaha! 🙂

    Guess he didn’t realize who they were dealing with, huh?

    So you’re gearing up for your Manila vacay? Be safe and enjoy! Will look forward to your posts and pics later.

  2. sardonicnell · November 25, 2008

    hahaha, that’s right SIS PINKY. and yes, we’re getting ready for our trip to manila. can’t beleive it’s already next week. and i also look forward to viewing your photo in europe. take care 😀

  3. Leap of Faith! · December 1, 2008

    Nell, I can’t believe how this request/discussion turned out so badly. Probably there were already underlying issues between the two of you that just surfaced after you turned his request down.

    Anyway, huwag mo na pansinin. Just enjoy your vacation sa Pinas!

  4. sardonicnell · December 2, 2008

    thank you, KEITH. i’m just ignoring all these. cause i didn’t want to go home all sad. besides, i know in my heart that i didn’t do anything wrong. that whatever i’ve said, i was simply provoke by my bro. thanks for the well wishes, God bless 😀

  5. darlene · December 2, 2008

    enjoy your pinas trip..will you be visiting CDO?

    wishing you and your family a very merry Christmas!!!

  6. sardonicnell · December 2, 2008

    thank you, DARLENE. yes, we’ll be visiting CDO to see our maternal grandmother and relatives. happy holidays to you, too. God bless 😀

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