Neither Good or Bad

These are my mothers words of wisdom… 

In life,

There will be people who won’t accept you.

And in that case,

You must be your own bad ass self.

Be a bitch without apologies!

PS: Please pardon my mothers words. Let’s just say that she’s not the kind of person who sugar coats her statements. It is what is, that’s her mantra!



  1. munchkinmommy · October 2, 2007

    Your mom’s words are very true. Sorry na lang sa mga taong who can’t accept others for who they are. 😀 Have a great week ahead, Nell!

  2. sardonicnell · October 2, 2007

    hello weng! to be honest, i think mom was rather mean when she said this. although, it’s true naman. like i said in my post script, mom does not sugar coat her words; she doesn’t pick her words either. i guess the sardonic side of me, i may have gotten it from her. hehehe!

    have a great week as well. hugs and kisses to you and your family =)

  3. rollercoastermom · October 2, 2007

    your mom is very wise 🙂 talaga namang we cannot please everyone. so just do what you have to do. be who you truly are. as long as your conscience is clear and you can sleep peacefully at night, bahala na silang lahat 😉

  4. sardonicnell · October 2, 2007

    hello kris! either my mom is wise or she’s just being sarcastic, hahaha. and you’re right, we can’t please everyone.

    ako naman eh basta my family and friends are around, care bears ko sa mga ayaw sa akin! hahaha, mag eemote sila sa sama ng loob. ako eh tatawa nalang, dba? hahaha =)

  5. K · October 2, 2007

    Sarcastically funny hahaha. My thing is, “who cares”.

  6. rollercoastermom · October 2, 2007

    hahaha! tama ka! 😀 bayaan mo sila mag-emote! teehee!

  7. Meeya · October 2, 2007

    hmm, medyo “forceful” nga ang words ng mom mo. siguro i would “say” the same thing to ninna, pero i would maybe use a different language, haha!

    pero totoo naman, you can’t let yourself be affected by or conform to what other people say. if you do that, you will be setting a limit to yourself with what you can or cannot do. if so, how will you be able to live your life fully, diba? 🙂

  8. sardonicnell · October 2, 2007

    hello k! i definitely agree with you, who cares. dba? but if i would put in my own words, i’d say — care bears!

  9. sardonicnell · October 2, 2007

    naku kris, if i think too much of these people who don’t like me. dadami lang ang age lines ko! kaya hayaan sila sa kanilang bitterness, bow =)

  10. sardonicnell · October 2, 2007

    hello meeya! medyo nga forceful ang dating ni mother. she’s quite known in the family circle for her unique choice of words, hehehe!

    we really cant please everyone naman talaga eh. and i’m fine naman with people who dont like me, as long as they dont say anything bad or malicious. but if they do, then it’s time i let my horns and tail grow out. hahaha =)

  11. Jen · October 2, 2007


  12. sardonicnell · October 2, 2007

    hi jen! i don’t know if heavens would approve of my mom’s words of wisdom. but i say, AMEN as well!

  13. freshmess · October 2, 2007

    i love your mom! very cool!

  14. sardonicnell · October 2, 2007

    thanks, mark! mom is cool, but she can be a handful as well =)

  15. banggigay · October 3, 2007

    ay so true. keber mode ang mum mo! 🙂 hahahaha! may pinagmanahan ka pala!

  16. sardonicnell · October 3, 2007

    hello bangge! mom is pretty nice naman, though she has that keber attitude stamped all over her. hahahah =)

  17. bw · October 3, 2007

    Right on ! Life is too precious to get stressed with those stuck-up people 🙂

  18. sardonicnell · October 3, 2007

    thanks bw! there’s more to life than getting ourselves stress about people that dont even matter. right? please excuse mom’s language, she does not like rephrasing her statements. hahaha!

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